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Finding Balance in the Chaos: Time Inventory for Moms and Homemakers

I have found that I am resistant to change unless I have pain in my life or data to show me that I need to make a radical adjustment. That is why I love using a Time Inventory. When I am feeling some friction in my schedule, or in my expectations of myself, or my children, I know I need to make a change. However, I often do not know what change would be the most effective.

The answer is not becoming superhuman and trying to fit more into my already busy day. It is not getting up early and stealing hours of sleep. It is not yelling or becoming impossible to live with because of anger and feeling like a failure. The answer often rests in realizing how much time my tasks take. And finding those sneaky time wasters that hide invisibly in my day.

So here is the tool that I use to do that process.

My Time Inventory – Why?

A Time Inventory can work wonders for your schedule! By tracking how you spend your time each day, you’ll gain valuable insights and discover hidden gems. It allows you to find moments for self-care and rejuvenation, ensuring you have the energy to tackle daily challenges. By identifying time-wasting activities it empowers you to make positive changes, freeing up precious moments for what truly matters—your family, passions, and personal growth. Also, a time inventory helps you set realistic goals, boosting productivity while maintaining a healthy work-life balance. So, take this proactive step today; you’ll be amazed at how it brings harmony, joy, and fulfillment to your home.

“You will never find time for anything. If you want time, you must make it.”

– Charles Buxton

Why do we avoid this tool?

You might be hesitant to do a time inventory due to a few reasons:

  • Feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities and thinking tracking time will add more stress.
  • Worried about discovering time-wasting habits and facing potential inefficiencies.
  • Resisting change and finding it tough to adjust routines or habits.
  • Preferring spontaneity and not wanting a structured time inventory.
  • Feeling uncomfortable with self-reflection or scrutinizing daily activities.
  • Being influenced by social expectations, making self-care and time management a lower priority.
  • Already having effective time management strategies in place, so a time inventory might not be necessary.

Remember, it’s all about what feels right for you and your unique situation! If any of these reasons jump out at you, spend some time journaling.

What are you concerned about?

What do you think you will discover if you do this process?


my free printable – see link below

“The key is in not spending time, but in investing it.”

– Stephen R. Covey

I’m assuming that if you are still here reading this that you are dedicated. You are genuinely curious about how to do an effective Time Inventory and get the massive benefits to this tool. Awesome! I am so glad you are here! Keep reading and be sure to download the free printable below. ⬇️

Let’s do this!

My Time Inventory – How?

I have read about doing a Time Inventory in multiple books. And I have done a few myself, but I was struggling to put words to the process. Here is what I found when I asked Chat GPT (with a bit of editing from me).

Here are detailed steps to effectively log your time in a Time Inventory:

  1. Choose a Time Frame: Decide on the duration of your Time Inventory. It could be a week, two weeks, or a month, depending on the level of detail you want to capture.
  2. Select a Logging Method: Decide on the method you’ll use to record your activities. You can use a physical notebook, a spreadsheet, a time-tracking app, or even a journal. Choose something that’s easily accessible and convenient for you.
  3. Create a Time Log Template: If using a physical notebook or spreadsheet, create a table with columns for the following information:
    • Date: Record the date for each day you are tracking.
    • Start Time: Note the time when you start each activity.
    • End Time: Record the time when you finish each activity.
    • Activity Description: Briefly describe the activity you’re engaging in.
  4. Start Logging Activities: Record everything you do each day, from chores to hobbies.
  5. Be Specific: Describe activities in detail, like “cooking dinner”. For example, instead of writing “housework,” specify whether it’s washing dishes, doing laundry, or vacuuming. (or gathering random dirty clothes)
  6. Include Everything: Log all activities, no matter how big or small. Include childcare, household chores, work-related tasks, personal time, social interactions, and leisure activities.
  7. Note Time Breaks: If you take short breaks throughout the day, include them in your log. It helps you see how you use small pockets of time.
  8. Log Time Immediately: Try to log activities as close to their completion as possible. This reduces the chances of forgetting or inaccurately recording the time spent.
  9. Stay Consistent: Be consistent with your logging throughout the chosen time frame. Avoid skipping days, as it can create gaps in your data.
  10. Use Timers (Optional): To ensure precise time tracking, you can use timers or stopwatch apps for each activity. This is particularly helpful when activities have varying durations.

Remember – you are the only one who will see this. Be honest. It is for the benefit of future you and it will help in the next step: Reflection.

Photo by Bookblock on Unsplash

The Reflection Process:

Remember, a Time Inventory is a tool to help you make conscious choices about how you spend your time. It’s essential to find a balance that allows you to take care of yourself, your family, and pursue your personal interests and goals. The path to get there begins with gathering the data but then you have to do something with it.

The reflection process is my favorite part. I am not really a fan of stopping a million times a day to write out honestly what I have been doing for the past half hour…. but, the data is needed for this next step.

When I have taken time for reflection, I found these awesome benefits:

  1. I discovered patterns and what mattered most: I took a peek at my daily activities, spotted any trends or patterns, and figured out which activities truly mattered and resonated with my heart as a stay-at-home mom.
  2. I found time for fun and cut time wasters: I identified opportunities to add more fun and self-care into my days. I also pinpointed any time-wasting activities that I could let go of or optimize.
  3. I made realistic goals: Now that I knew what needed adjusting, I set some reasonable expectations for myself!

You’ve got this! Be kind to yourself and create doable steps to spend time on what truly brings you joy and fulfillment.

Here is a free printable that I have created to help with these steps:

“Time = life; therefore, waste your time and waste your life, or master your time and master your life.”

– Alan Lakein

Doing a time inventory is incredibly helpful, especially when you’re juggling multiple roles and fulfilling expectations from many people. It gives you valuable insights into how you spend each day, helping you manage your time more effectively. You can identify time-wasting habits and make adjustments to find the right balance between family, personal growth, and meeting others’ expectations.

Understanding your time usage can reduce stress and create space for self-care. This will make it easier to handle all your responsibilities and be your best self in every role you have. This broken world needs more moms, homemakers, and leaders who live intentionally. I hope that something here has helped you do that.

💙📝I am cheering for you! – April


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